Dear Roc/Sir, i am as you know submissive and love it. Don't though though that Master ever really hurts me, he doesn't. He is in fact a Doctor and always rubs in an oil first, on my bum or breasts before doing anything. He also makes sure i am very excited and have orgasmed several times, somethimes he straps a vib [a butterfly] over my clit so i'm cumming whilst being spanked or even caned. This has been done so often now that a Pavlovian Response has been set up and i cum if he as much as says he's going to spank me or just shows me the strop or cane. The human mind is a strange thing is it not.